People have referred to her as the loud, fun one and they call me the quiet, sweet one. (believe me quiet doesn’t always equal sweet, it may only appear that way) So our personalities are very different. BUT we both struggle with the same character flaw, selfishness. We need to learn to use our personalities to honor others.
For me, I need to work on not thinking about my own feelings so much and look to meet the needs of those around me. When I see someone standing alone, I need to get over my own uncomfortable feelings and try to make them feel more comfortable.
On the other hand, my sister may need to work on being quiet with a friend and allowing them the time and space to express themselves. She may have to focus on being slow to speak and quick to listen, while I need to take the risk to speak and not just listen.
So although our personalities have strengths and weaknesses, our personality does not equal our character. You may want to go to a party with my sister and you may want to go out to coffee with me, but her and I both need to continue to grow in the character of honoring others with our personality.