Suggestions on How to Find a Mate for Life!
#1) Be 100% selfish about choosing your mate. Don’t spend time with ineligible people or let your motherly or fatherly instincts lead you to try and fix, mend or change them. You choose who you spend time with NOT who you fall in love with. Love does NOT cover a multitude of sins!
#2) Don’t let infatuation or your heart choose your partner until they meet these basic rules! Take the time to be sure they are who they appear to be, not who they would like to become.
#3) Do they have a good work ethic and monetary values.
#4) Does their family have a history of good health? Any addictive personalities? ie: smoking, drinking, porn, drugs, sports,...
#5) Do they have the same basic beliefs and values and a desire to pursue them?
#6) Are you attracted to them, proud to show them off to family?
#7) Are they grateful, thankful, positive people?
#8) Does their family remind you of yours? Are you comfortable with them? Do they show affection and love to each other?
#9) Do they have a love and respect for women? Do they respect
your desire to have a close relationship with your family? Never trust anyone who tries to separate you from your family.
#10) Are you comfortable with them in silence? Are you able to
totally be yourself?
#11) Are they humble (self confident) enough to let others win? How do they treat the elderly?
#12) Do they have the same desire for children and are your ideas for parenting compatible?
#13) Do you have mutual interests and agree on where you will
#14) Are you open to input from parents and siblings? They know
you and want the best for you.
#15) Are you comfortable sharing everything on this list with