Three times in the past two days I found myself doubting the way I dealt with a child. Each time I had to wait until Todd was available to run the scenario past him to get his perspective. The first time he was just up stairs, but the other two times I had to wait until bedtime or even the next morning.
Of the three explanations I gave him, he gave me three different responses.
1) You were wrong, you need to apologize.
2) You were right, just leave it.
3) This is different; it is ok, just different.
Only one required action on my part. They each guided me and eased my uncertainty. We must each know our own husband, because I know my husband would not like me showering him with scenarios every time we talked. But, if I come to him when I truly need him, he is amazing at cutting to the chase and helping me see clearly. I am so thankful for my go to guy.